Is she being neglectful?

Something needs to be done about his weight. This is a really bad way to start out life. I have a 2 year old that weighs 30 lbs but he is very tall for his age. She really needs to give him water and 2%milk or juice. White meat instead of red. More veggies and fruits and less animal crackers or wahtever she gives him. Doesnt the doctor say anything about his weight? I would keep on her and have your husband talk to her if he hasn't. Maybe buy him some bigger clothes and diapers too? I dont think they make a size 7 diaper. So she's going to have toput him in pull-ups or big kid diapers for bed wetters.